The primer cost is more of a factor to me. My deciding load density for 44 Special is determined by the lightness of the 20-ounce Bulldog. I load till it's not comfortable to shoot. Heavier the gun the hotter the load.
I’ve mostly in the same boat. I’ve had 3 or 4 Bulldogs of the years currently down to one. The 3” model is the first CA purchased years ago and Karyn made it hers right away. Never liked the 2” Bulldog the 3” is a small enough package for me. Keep in mind in this northern country you have a fair amount of clothing on usually year round to hide a pistol.
But I’ve generally loaded up Brian P. Level 1 loads even though the little CA a can probably handle a little stiffer load. Karyn can’t.
I found years ago a Rossi 720 3” SPL which is a heavier gun with adjustable sights and I’ve stayed with the same loadings that I use in the Bulldog. I’ve often wondered if the Rossi could handle the level 2 loadings, but never found any information to confirm my suspicions.
I picked up a 4” CA Bulldog with adjustable sights for my BIL who shoots it quite well.
My other experience with the Special was with the Lew Horton guns in the 80’s I picked up a 3” round butt and a 4” square butt. Sweet guns. But they regrettably went down the road and now that I would like to replace them I can’t afford them.
I had a 24-3 - 6” which I recently sold, beautiful pistol in new condition, wonderful shooter. But I don’t use a range pistol hardly ever so it would sit in the box and collect dust.
The biggest problem with the 44 special is the lack of a decent mid size pistol. Recent years have produced a few guns Rugers GP100 which comes in a blue 5” which is looking pretty nice for a Ruger, but it’s not a Smith. Still tempted though.
I did buy a Smith 69 4” a few years ago and that was nice, but it was stainless and very little weight and physical size savings to set aside my old 4” model 29-2 with a round butt that I’ve been carrying forever. So the 69 went down the road.
Dave has a new in the box Ruger Blackhawk that I’ve been eyeing, it can be had pretty reasonably but I have been shying away because it’s a single action. I think I’m about to get over that though.

See a lot of you guys using light for caliber bullets in Bulldogs. IME, light for caliber bullets shoot low in fixed-sighted revolvers. I stick with 240-250 grainers in mine. I never found that much of a difference in recoil with light for caliber bullets.........slower burning powders seem to make more of a difference.
The only fixed sight 44 I have is Karyn’s Bulldog, and if it gets used it will be close. A couple inches elevation one way or another won’t make any difference.
just throwin this out there.
Unique soot is a fine dry lubricant in the carbide dies..
so if your savin money, you can save it in the lanolin too.
LOL. Got to love you man, you always have the sunny side in mind.
I’ve been frustrated with Unique because of the carbon in level one 44 loadings, possibly worse because I have a bunch of older Unique in the cardboard 4 pound jugs. I hear the new stuff is cleaner.
But I’ve been thinking about using Bullseye or 231 and seeing how that works out.
I’m still wondering if the Rossi 720 could safely handle level two loadings, I think it could, but not sure. It seems like a pretty well built pistol, but it’s not a Smith.

My 29-2, not pretty but it’s a workhorse.

The Charter top, Rossi below.

The blue 22-4 model 1950 45 ACP has in recent years stepped up to fill the void that the lack of a 4” 44 Smith has left.
Don’t pay any attention to that beautiful 625, it’s stainless for one thing, but I’ve got over my dislike of shiny things for this fine shooter.
I personally think that the Lew Horton offering's in the 80’s were about perfect. A little heavy for CC but you could find yourself making allowances for such a fine gun.
I know one member here who has one, I won’t mention him, but I am envious.