Nostalgia & traditions from a Bygone time

fiver

Well-Known Member
They have a strong belief in proxy baptism
it's called baptism for the dead, it is performed at the temple usually on the younger kids of around 12.
been there done that.

i always wondered what the devil thought about 200,000 souls simply poofing out of his domain everyday around 10 am.
anyway it has to be requested by a family member, and that's why the genealogical history is important to them.
 

Mitty38

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I can remember the late fall harvest picking up the apples in the orchard, that weren't quite bruised. Putting them in buckets Straw baskets, and a big wash tubs,in a trailer on the back of the 1932 Silver King tractor that my dad sometimes let my brother and I drive.
Often our crew consisted of Mom Dad, of my brother, and I. Along with a neighbor or two and an occasionally a stray cousin, my mother would adopt for a while. We'd get in a rotten apple fight, and of course you know that was always fun. But I usually ended up with a good butt tanning or two. Not so fun.
When we finally got that trailer full and got our hides whipped thoroughly, we would wash off the apples with the hose. Then drive the tractor up to the old 46 Ford pickup and load up all the apples into the bed. Leaving just enough room for a couple big fishing nets of plastic jugs tied on top. And a couple spots for us kids to jump in the back, to ride in the bed down to the mill. Usually standing up holding to the roof. Getting molested by tree branches all the way.
The mill was a magical place for us kids. Built way way before my parents time. Made out of stone and wood. Had a paddle wheel that turned slowly in a stream powering the whole works. We just love to watch those old wooden gears and stone weights work.
The Mills general purpose had always been to grind cornmeal. But after the corn harvest and the little bit of flour that they ground was done. For the end of the season they would set it up an apple press inside attached to the works.
The child that Mom and Dad had deemed was the most helpful that year, and had caused the least amount of trouble, got to take the first sip of The cider coming off that Mill. That was a very special treatment I got to partake of a few times. Some years on the way back from the mill, we would stop at the Magnolia Speedway. A quarter mile drag track. Often paying our way in with jugs of cider. Trading cider for soggy vinegar coated fries and a greasy burger each.
We would sit there and watch the races. Old Model T's,56 - 58 chevys and Late 60's muscle cars going head to head. While there we would sell cider.
Sometimes it sold so good, we had to hide a couple jugs. So we could get them home for our own use.

I really enjoyed the time of the making of the cider. Along with the time with family that we got to spend. Many who are no longer with us.
 
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Missionary

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SW Michigan Riverside area, cider was made at each family "apple farm" with a large screw press.
Kids were detailed to get all the "wind falls" loading wood boxes or bushels.
Grandpa ran the tractor & pulled the loaded wagon to the barn.
Older boys ran along the trailer loading filled apple containers.
Adult men were in the barn area loading the press and doing the squeezing. Then cleaning out the press.
The ladies were filling the jugs and placing the filled ones to the side.
Grandma and the "older girls" were in the kitchen cooking that wonderful Saturday afternoon meal.
 

RBHarter

West Central AR
Amusement is the why . We as western humans have as much thirst to know where we are going as where we've been.

I worked with a guy some years ago that had an interesting lump in his family tree . There was a young man with a wife and 2 children that went off to fight the war between the states from a state that disallowed women to own property and the homestead was at risk after the young man was killed . His best friend/war buddy assumed his place and after a time had 2 children with the widow . When the kids were about 9,7,5,4 about 1867/8 the widow passed during a bad flu winter . The War buddy now being a propertied widower needed a woman to tend the home and children was shortly remarried and had 2 kids . This woman was my coworkers Grandmother. 2 fathers , 2 mother's , 8 kids on one farm . The 2 oldest boys assumed ownership of farm and cared for their stepmother until about 1900 . By blood the kids 1,2&7,8 weren't related except by the half siblings 3,4,5,6 .

I suspect that the above and foundlings situation was not uncommon. Today I'm raising 3 kids as my own . 2 of them are only halfs to Ms grandson. Not being married and all , no sense messing an arrangement that's been working most of 10 years , I have kids that will call me Papa and their kids will be confused.....
 

Charles Graff

Moderator Emeritus
I get it that some folks have no interest in family history. Knowing who and what my ancestors were, helps me to understand better who I am. Values and culture is passed on from generation to generation. Physical characteristics as well as personality characteristics also come with DNA. Much of our health is also handed down. I think I am a better person knowing than not knowing. There are some things we can change, but others are hard wired in our brains. It is better to know than not know, for I like myself better knowing. But I am a introvert and introspective sort, that also was handed down to me.
 
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blackthorn

Active Member
I was adopted at 18 months, out of Winnipeg Manitoba in 1939. Got a GREAT deal!! No matter what those wonderful people are my parents. Later I married and have 2 sons. Twenty or so years ago the youngest son had an interest about my birth family so I wrote to Winnipeg to see what I could find out. Answer was nothing, records are sealed. There is a registry where one can sign up (so I did) and if the other party also registers contact can be made. She had never registered, They did offer to search and see if my birth mother was alive and/or did I have siblings and if so, did she/they want to make contact. At that point I dropped the search. My reason was I do not think digging up bones is a good idea as it might cause untold angst to someone who, for whatever reason, had moved on with their life. The only reason, other than my son's interest, would be to determine if there is any hereditary problems I might pass on and at that point it was too late to change anything.
 

Bret4207

At the casting bench in the sky. RIP Bret.
If I hadn't started doing the ancestry I never would have known a lot of what I do. It's important to me, not to "hand it down", but because it lets me gather more info. To each their own.
 

Thumbcocker

Active Member
I have no problem with anyone seeking knowledge. I do get annoyed at folks who act like they are better than others because of who their ancestors were. (Not seeing that on this thread).

I am told that great grandpa used to say "people who brag on who their ancestors were are like taters; the best part of them are under the ground". Never got to meet him but wish I could have.
 

Bret4207

At the casting bench in the sky. RIP Bret.
I found out my wifes family was on the 2nd boat to the Plymouth Colony after the Pilgrims. Also found out her family owned a good part of NYC long ago. Found out both our families lived within a few miles of each other in England. Found out my family seemed to move a good deal, Scotland, France, Ireland over and over again across several generations. Make me wonder who was chasing them! I never knew any of my family was in the Colonies at the time of the Revolution and was surprised to find at least 3 branches fought for the Colonials. I find all that stuff interesting, not from a "better than anyone else" point, but because I then am left wondering what they were like and how they thought. I find all that very interesting.
 

popper

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chamber pots! I didn't want to say that.
Some of the 'family' history is, well, debatable. Her side, supposed girl friend of Jesse James. Hmm. Shea stadium, hmm. My side, some English barron. Hmm.
 

Jeff H

NW Ohio
OK, I have one.

When my step-father "stepped in," when I was about nine, the whole extended family thing went "POOF!" He didn't asspciate much with anyone, so we didn't either. What familial associations I'd begun to build halted and everything was new and different. He has pretty much disowned his own family and was adopted, so we became pretty isolated from our greatest influences - grandparents.

This is my maternal grandfather, Otto Kenneth Hennsinger, Cooper (not "Cooperstown), Ohio. This photo appears in the book, "Sittin' On a Stump," by "Col." Raymond C. Vietzen, C1968. Vietzen visited my grandpa fairly frequently, as Vietzen was an amateur archeologist and my grandpa was a "horse-trader," extraordinaire - trading horses and everything else. He was pretty famous for always getting the better of whomever he was trading with, but no one eve seemed to get mad at him about it. Duck decoys, guns, buggies, antiques, relics,... Vietzen always dressed in a suit, stetson and wore a bolo tie. As a kid, I thought he was some kind of special agent or marshal and avoided him. WHY I thought I had to steer clear as a six-year-old, I don't know, but he seemed "sketchy" to me. I didn't know about this book until I was probably forty, when my mom found a copy and bought it for me. She also thought he was "sketchy" and thought the stories in this book were a bit tawdry, and waited until I was "an adult" (FORTY??) to share this with me.

My grandparents were very traditional, still had an outhouse, carried water in from the well, lived a basic and frugal lifestyle. They had an antique store and the harness shop and my grandpa was always turning a buck one creative way or another. That harness shop is gone now. That stitching pony mysteriously disappeared after he died in 1977. I wish I knew where it went, because I learned to stitch leather on the very stitching pony in the attached photo. I know everyone calls them a "stitching horse," but I was told it was a "stitching pony" when I was young. The smells of leather and old oak (antiques) makes me feel very nostalgic. Hearing bees-waxed thread squeak through leather makes me feel very nostalgic. Sore fingers make me nostalgic. I'm not the best leather-worker, but I surely enjoy doing it, because it takes me back to a day when people were self-sufficient and could repair old things, make new things and appreciate what they had.

Looking at this picture, I can smell the air, feel the coolness from the vitreous tile walls and feel the grit and leather bits underfoot on the not-so-smooth, cracked concrete floor. The cousin who taught me to stitch on that pony passed last year - covid. He was a bit of a hippie and a hot-rodder all his life, but he never let go of the traditional things grandpa taught us directly or indirectly.

Oh, @JWFilips ! There is a picture of a young Wes Kindig on the opposite page to the one this is on. Last time I was in the Log Cabin Shop (a very long time ago), I think he was still alive. His son was running the shop then and seemed a little older than Wes looks in the photo.

OK Hennsinger (Copy).jpg
 
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RBHarter

West Central AR
chamber pots! I didn't want to say that.
Some of the 'family' history is, well, debatable. Her side, supposed girl friend of Jesse James. Hmm. Shea stadium, hmm. My side, some English barron. Hmm.
My Ms aunt has a fairly deep tree with brothers in it , Frank and James Younger . Not so big a world is it ?
 

popper

Well-Known Member
Actually, her side has late 1700s in Lotbinière area of Canada, then to Minnesota. And others moved from Ga after Sherman's troops killed and ate the blind mule. Then they went up the Red river to sw Ar. Lots of related in west/south west Ar. Bucks, Davis, Dees, and many more. Her G.Great grandpa got medal of honor and buried in Mars Hill.