Petrol & Powder
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Another thread got my mind wandering and brought back memories; some old and some newer.
Responsibility is not measured by age and every person is different, but responsibility should be earned, not simply handed out.
In another thread people were asked about when they started shooting. Most of the accounts involved someone deciding another person was capable of being responsible and then introducing that person to firearms. I got to thinking about other earned responsibilities.
Walking to school on your own. Walking to the bus stop on your own. Driving vehicles (maybe not on the highway). Operating equipment. Answering the phone. Cooking, caring for animals, staying by yourself. Operating firearms. Operating boats. There are countless examples of earned responsibilities, but the common denominator is the responsibilities are earned.
I hate the phrase, “Is it safe”? The world is NOT a safe place, nor will it ever be a safe place. A far better test would be to ask, “Is that person responsible”? Earning responsibility builds character and respect.
Several years ago I was on a subway in New York City. There was a girl that looked to be about 11-12 years old that appeared to be going to school. She was wearing a school uniform, had her books with her and was clearly traveling alone. That girl was far more responsible than a lot of 20-year-old kids that I’ve seen. She had earned the responsibility to get to school on her own. She was probably far better equipped to deal with life than some kid that was coddled.
Young men and women in the military earn responsibilities and some of those responsibilities are huge.
Young men and women in EMS & Fire Service earn responsibilities that are far beyond the average 20 year old.
Members of a family farm will often operate equipment that is potentially dangerous and expensive, but they are trusted to be responsible.
I would submit that people that EARN responsibility are far better equipped to handle life than those that are sheltered.
What say you?
Responsibility is not measured by age and every person is different, but responsibility should be earned, not simply handed out.
In another thread people were asked about when they started shooting. Most of the accounts involved someone deciding another person was capable of being responsible and then introducing that person to firearms. I got to thinking about other earned responsibilities.
Walking to school on your own. Walking to the bus stop on your own. Driving vehicles (maybe not on the highway). Operating equipment. Answering the phone. Cooking, caring for animals, staying by yourself. Operating firearms. Operating boats. There are countless examples of earned responsibilities, but the common denominator is the responsibilities are earned.
I hate the phrase, “Is it safe”? The world is NOT a safe place, nor will it ever be a safe place. A far better test would be to ask, “Is that person responsible”? Earning responsibility builds character and respect.
Several years ago I was on a subway in New York City. There was a girl that looked to be about 11-12 years old that appeared to be going to school. She was wearing a school uniform, had her books with her and was clearly traveling alone. That girl was far more responsible than a lot of 20-year-old kids that I’ve seen. She had earned the responsibility to get to school on her own. She was probably far better equipped to deal with life than some kid that was coddled.
Young men and women in the military earn responsibilities and some of those responsibilities are huge.
Young men and women in EMS & Fire Service earn responsibilities that are far beyond the average 20 year old.
Members of a family farm will often operate equipment that is potentially dangerous and expensive, but they are trusted to be responsible.
I would submit that people that EARN responsibility are far better equipped to handle life than those that are sheltered.
What say you?