The guy came out and we put the new pump in. Good enough, plenty of water in the well, guess I didn't realize, but it's about 80 feet deep.
Looking at thing, seems the the pressure tank under the house is going bad, we'd had "surging" for a while, and he thinks this is the reason the other pump died prematurely, so new tank is happening next week. In the meantime, keeping that pump turned off when not in use.
Oddly, it has poured down rain the past 16 hours or so, not as bad here, but just east, it washed across a major roadway which isn't normally a flood zone.
This has gotten me to thinking and I am going to start some kind of rain catchment system. I eventually plan to start gardening when I retire from the work force and that will most definitely be a good skill set.